Heartbreaks
Thursday, December 29, 2005
One advise for those who are recovering from heartbreaks or trying to let go of the past. That includes you too, Da ge...
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and but as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
Making your bf/gf as your top priority is not a mistake nor an offence. But neglecting your friends at the same time when u are with someone. Hmm... Let me put it as a big time OFFENCE!! It is just my opinion. Everyone has the right to say what they wanna say as not everyone thinks alike. Thinking towards the same direction as me.
Giving your fullest attention to them is your own personal choice and I respect that decision of yours. But ever thought of sparing just a few percentage of it to friends?? Aren't you like neglecting your own friends whom you know inside out. Your friends who share all your joys, laughters and sorrows throughout the years of your friendship. Someone whom you knew even before you went out with your bf/gf? Some people are in a much pitiful state unlike what some had gone through. They lost their friends along the way due to their lack of attention towards in their friendnship. I hope they learnt their mistakes.
For those who are attached:
Please do not neglect your friends. Though they will always be there for you, try to spend time with them. As without them, life will or perhaps can be meaningless.
For those who are suffering, recovering or went through this stage before:
Let it be a lesson learnt. Keep it in mind and try not to repeat the same mistakes again.
Im not pointing any fingers at any one in particular. It is just my personal view. What I've been keeping inside me for such a long time.
[[-- Life is a series full of coincidences --]]
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and but as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
Making your bf/gf as your top priority is not a mistake nor an offence. But neglecting your friends at the same time when u are with someone. Hmm... Let me put it as a big time OFFENCE!! It is just my opinion. Everyone has the right to say what they wanna say as not everyone thinks alike. Thinking towards the same direction as me.
Giving your fullest attention to them is your own personal choice and I respect that decision of yours. But ever thought of sparing just a few percentage of it to friends?? Aren't you like neglecting your own friends whom you know inside out. Your friends who share all your joys, laughters and sorrows throughout the years of your friendship. Someone whom you knew even before you went out with your bf/gf? Some people are in a much pitiful state unlike what some had gone through. They lost their friends along the way due to their lack of attention towards in their friendnship. I hope they learnt their mistakes.
For those who are attached:
Please do not neglect your friends. Though they will always be there for you, try to spend time with them. As without them, life will or perhaps can be meaningless.
For those who are suffering, recovering or went through this stage before:
Let it be a lesson learnt. Keep it in mind and try not to repeat the same mistakes again.
Im not pointing any fingers at any one in particular. It is just my personal view. What I've been keeping inside me for such a long time.
[[-- Life is a series full of coincidences --]]
